How to festival with tiny human(s): 10 things to consider
Photo by Chris Thériault
We’ve all heard it before. The infamous “Just wait till you have kids!” rhymed off by a jaded boomer aunt, reminiscing on all the sacrifices she made. She’s right, sort of.
Lots changes when you have kids, yes, but that doesn’t mean you can’t continue to do the things you love. It just means your experience will be different. It may require a little more planning, but we promise it’ll be worth it when you see your offspring exploring a massive geodesic dome set up on Durham, or dancing to your new favourite artist.
In an effort to help you and your crew get out the door, one of our inhouse parents has put together a list of things to consider.
Adjust your expectations
The weekend schedule may not align with your nap and feeding routine, or the many surprise bathroom breaks. Although this may seem daunting, embracing flexibility, compromise, and spontaneity can really change the game. Give yourself permission to change plans and always pivot when you’re not feeling grounded.
Think about the gear
Wagon, carrier, or stroller? Have you got a plan for rain? When you arrive onsite, will you feel OK to sit wherever, or will you be most comfortable at a table or on your own picnic blanket? Get comfy and take space.
Pack layers
For the kids and for you. Messes happen at the best of times. The last thing you want is to be soiled while racing to catch the next pop-up show—or cold when the summer night surprises us with a temperature dip.
Wipes: the duct tape of parenthood
There will be sticky hands, snot, and probably some tears (of joy). Having a pack of baby wipes on hand will make it all far more manageable, and ideally help you avoid a mid-set costume change or two.
Pack more diapers than you think you need
You know why.
Have a snack + stay hydrated
A well-timed snack can turn a tantrum around faster than you can say porketta. The antidote to irritability, having a full belly is equally important for parents as it is for children. If your baby is having a snack of the boob variety, please feel free to do this wherever you feel most comfortable! If you prefer a little privacy, the YMCA is a great spot nearby. Remember to bring your (and your kids’!) favourite water bottles, and keep them filled too.
Prepare for music
Noise cancelling headsets are a stellar way to protect tiny ears—and bonus, they look stinkin’ cute! Set up in a spot that feels right and where you can hear your thoughts. Beware that volume may increase as the night falls.
Find a village
Whether you're attending with family and friends, or going solo with the kids in tow, you are likely to find your kind of people nearby. This may be in the form of attendees with children, attendees who have had children, or attendees with parent-like reflexes. Trust that you will not be alone and lean on those around you as needed.
Too stimulated? Step away and give yourself grace.
Festivals are a lot to take in at the best of times. You are allowed to take five and catch your breath away from the action. A self-guided mural tour is a great way to unwind intentionally, too.
Have fun
This festival is as much yours as it is anyone else's, even with all your people and their different needs. Be unapologetic. We're so glad you came!
Wondering what the heck there even is to do with your kid(s) at Up Here 9? The festival runs August 18-20, 2023. Up Here Square is jam-packed with family-friendly, but not necessarily family-only, activities and shows all day Saturday, August 19, 2023. You can look forward to: tie dying some Up Here merch, painting mini murals on cardboard castles, and dancing around to sets by bands like Thunder Queens—a wickedly sick, all-teen punk band from London (the Ontario one)!
If you want to join our weird family with your weird family, consider buying our brand new Up Here Square Passport. It’ll get you access to everything happening all weekend long on Durham, and have you home before midnight, when the offsite, late-night shows get going. And as always, kiddos 12 and under get in free.
Photo by Chris Thériault
Additional photos by Marie-Josée Pelletier and Danielle Provencher.